BEST friends.
~what are best friends?Obligations or Promises?Contract or Ad hoc basis?there are expectations from ur friends and expectations from u for ur friends.are expectations part of friendships?are "invisible contracts" part of friendships? each person is supposed to be a free agent themselves, right?thats means u are not obliged to do things for them, right?but of course promises are a different thing. u hav to fulfill what u promised.everyone has their definition to being a friend, u can't expect things for them to do for u because u do this to ur other friends. everyone has their own rights to freedom and being a friend or even a boyfriend, u hav no absolute right to interfere to who they want to make friends with and what they want to do. Friends are not ur possesion, so u can't be possesive. there's nth like the early bird gets the worm. feelings happen naturally and thats how people who are so different yet so similar can bond together.Sincerity is the key to making friends, and for friends to stay true to u. If they don't, its their loss not urs.going deep into a r'ship means more expectatons and more disappointment. its doesn't mean u must not devote in ur friends but u must not sink deep into it. mus they be always there for u or mus u always be there for them? there is nth like they shld be there for u, cos they hav their own things to tend to, they hav their emotional needs too. So, treasure those who are always there for u, cos its not easy to manage n balance things.how shld i end this? a sudden disorganized random thoughts about friends abt so much that has happened and about so many blogs i hav seen ppl thanking their friends. thanks for being there, i know u guys are reading this. remember, a small gesture can go a long way. i really appreciate ur friendships :) A friend once told me: i treasure the friend who finds time to spend with me and i cherish the friend who nvr consults the calendar to spend time with me
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